Divorcee Corner http://DivorceeCorner.com Divorce advice, Effects, Children and Divorce, Causes, Facts, Reasons, Statistics Records and lots more at Divorcee Corner en-us Copyright 2007, Divorcee Corner team. 240 How To Get Over A Break Up? http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96545 Wed, 8 Sep 2010 13:40 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96545 How To Get Over A Break Up?Here are 7 practical steps to make the pain of dealing with a break up disappear as soon as possible. I’m hoping they’ll give you some ideas about how to get over a break up and turn surviving into thriving in the quickest way.Whilst in the first couple of days you can feel a little numb there comes a time when it will hit you. Heartbreak is really, really painful and I know that there are times when coping with a break up can feel over whelming. I also know that, while it may sound trite to you right now, time is a healer. Sometimes it’s enough just to draw another breath or get out of bed again.

]]> Is the Long Term Effect of Divorce Worse Than Staying Married? http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96414 Tue, 7 Sep 2010 11:01 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96414 Is there only one long term effect of divorce? Absolutely not! Divorce is extremely hard to go through. If you are considering divorce, here are some things you should also consider. What does divorce do to you, personally? It hurts you financially - the expenses are many, and can continue for a long time.

There is also the emotional aspect of it. A struggling marriage is hard, but divorce is even harder. It causes emotions to flare, especially when one spouse doesn't want a divorce. It brings alot of anger, depression, hostility, and so much more. This emotional turmoil can lead to physical problems. You may not be able to eat well anymore, or sleep, because of the extreme stress that you are under. This will cause you to become ill more frequently.

]]> Divorce - Court Room Tips http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96222 Mon, 6 Sep 2010 06:52 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96222 When it comes to the Court Room, you will find this to be a pretty place.  Once the divorce proceedings begin, the outcome of your divorce is in the hands of a total stranger - the Judge.  You no longer have control. All decisions will now be made by a stranger. Of course this stranger may be having a bad day, not feeling well, or even have had a major fight with their spouse the night before.   I know it's scary and may even seem unfair, but this is the real world and it happens all the time. This judge is now in control of the outcome of your trial.

]]> Effects of Divorce on Children http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96100 Sun, 5 Sep 2010 14:52 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96100 When a couple decides their marriage is over, a tremendous sense of grief and relief are felt. A recently divorced person will feel grief over the loss of their marriage and the loss of their partner in life. But there is also a sense of relief that the pain and anguish is now over and their healing can begin. For couples without children divorce is a far simpler process. They are not continually seeing each other to bring up all those bad feelings over and over again. When children are involved parents must learn their new roles and coexist quickly to minimize the negative effects of divorce on children.

]]> Divorce and Children - How to Deal With Them http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96026 Sat, 4 Sep 2010 17:56 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=96026 Divorce is one stressful experience for parents themselves so what can they expect from their children. Regardless of age or development of them, they still tend to through a tough a process. Something or the other happens to them. Majority of the kids seem to become either very close to one of their parent or become very distant with either both of them or one of them. Different sort of feelings and phases are experienced by them.

It's hard to imagine a more difficult transition for a child to be party to his or her parents' divorce. Divorce just not affects the child but also the parent. Research has shown that despite reconciliation efforts via family counseling, most children suffer during and after the process.

]]> I Want To Overcome A Relationship Breakup Easily http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=95640 Wed, 1 Sep 2010 10:44 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=95640 I Want To Overcome A Relationship Breakup Easily: You don’t have to hide your head in the sand just because you recently had a breakup. Nearly everyone goes through a breakup some time in their life. There is nothing to be ashamed of or shy about. You need to relax a little and make a decision as to how you are going to deal with the breakup.

To sum it up there are only two ways you can deal with your breakup. You can give up hope and let it break you down so that you can’t overcome it easily or you can make a firm decision to overcome the breakup and even become stronger because of it. Depending on how you deal with the breakup and what your attitude is will decide the outcome. We all know that whatever doesn't kill you will make you stronger. But determination is needed.

]]> In divorce, who gets the family pet? http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=94129 Mon, 2 Aug 2010 06:44 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=94129 Should a dog be treated like a child when couples divorce? It's a question people are talking about after a judge in Maryland ordered a divorcing couple to share custody of their dog. A lot of people feel their pets are just a member of the family. However, until now, in divorce court they have been considered property. Either the pet goes fully to one party, or it's sold and the couple splits the proceeds.

For Gail Myers, "Lucky" is way more than a cute, loyal dog. "I  don't have any kids, so she is the closest that I am going to have to a child," Myers said. "I have another dog as well; they are both like my kids. So, when she decided to leave her husband, money and property didn't enter her mind. She left with "my clothes, a few personal items, and the dog ... That's all I wanted."

]]> Dealing with disorder http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=93293 Fri, 16 Jul 2010 07:08 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=93293 My lawyer is not happy when I write about my divorce all over my blog. But as a career adviser I say all the time that the best careers are those that are authentic, so it would be weird to have this huge event going on in my life and not make any mention of it within the context of my own career.

Dealing with disorder

And that's the bottom line - a marriage might be about love and the divorce about finances and kids. Both of those are linked to one's career. I go to the social worker to figure out how to handle the kids part of the equation, but as a career adviser myself, I have been thinking hard about things to do to keep the divorce from destroying my career. Here are my conclusions:

]]> Planning a divorce? Better get it now in California http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=93067 Wed, 14 Jul 2010 07:21 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=93067 The unhappily married would be stuck with each other under a proposal given clearance to try to get on the California ballot. Secretary of State Debra Bowen says the proponent of the proposed constitutional amendment may begin collecting petition signatures for his measure.

John Marcotte must collect signatures of 694,354 registered voters – the number equal to 8 percent of the total votes cast for governor in the 2006 gubernatorial election – in order to qualify it for the ballot. He has until Dec. 9.

If he’s successful and if the measure were to be approved by voters and survive the usual gauntlet of lawsuits, the California Constitution would be changed to eliminate the ability of married couples to get divorced in California.

]]> Children protect against divorce contagion http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=92948 Tue, 13 Jul 2010 07:56 GMT http://DivorceeCorner.com/article.asp?articleid=92948 children, divorce, social networks, A study showing the contagious nature of divorce among social networks has been receiving a good bit of attention this week. Not only friends, siblings and people you work with, but also friends of friends are more likely to divorce if you do. Children can protect you from this contagion (although not, apparently, from more direct causes of divorce) -- the more children the better.

The report is based on the Framingham Heart Study -- a longitudinal study of the population of a small Massachusetts town near Boston which was started in 1948 to investigate risk for heart disease. Now it seems to shed some light on matters of the heart in a figurative sense -- focusing again on “disease”.

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